About Me

I'm Victoria, a compassionate and dedicated Member of BACP & NCPS Integrative Counsellor with a deep-rooted passion for helping people navigate life's challenges. I work in Private practice supporting adults with a variety of problems and at a college providing young people counselling 16+.

  • Family Problems
  • Relationship Difficulties
  • Trauma Therapy
  • Self-esteem and Low self-worth
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Study Stress
  • Co-dependency, Addiction therapy, Families of addicts
  • Overwhelming feelings
  • Friendships and Loneliness
  • Careers
  • Counselling for people with Autism and ADHD
  • Grief and Loss


For 10 years, I worked as a massage therapist, supporting individuals with chronic illness, pain, and stress, as well as those in palliative and end-of-life care. This experience ignited my fascination with the mind-body connection and reinforced my commitment to providing holistic support to those in need.

I believe that every individual has the innate capacity for growth, healing, and resilience. My role as a counsellor is to create a non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and experiences openly and authentically. I am driven by a genuine desire to help people, live more fulfilling lives, and I approach our work together with empathy, warmth, and understanding.

Victoria Kilner, Integrative Counsellor in Aldershot and Online

I have worked at The Eaves- a low-cost service in Farnham, Surrey, where I gained valuable experience in providing long and short-term counselling for adults.

Experience and Qualifications

  • Currently Studying CPCAB L5 Trauma, Somatic & Psychodynamic Therapy
  • CPCAB L4 Integrative Counsellor
  • ADHD Practitioner Course
  • Experiential Psychodynamic Course

Continual Professional Development

The teenage brain

Let's Talk about Sex

Self-Agency

Impacts of Workplace stress on the body

Training your Vagus Nerve

I am committed to continuous professional development and staying up-to-date with the latest research and best practices in counselling. This ensures that I can provide you with the most effective, evidence-based support tailored to your unique needs and goals.


Get in touch


If you'd like to arrange an initial consultation or have any questions about my services, please email or fill out the contact form.

Please include:

  • What brings you to therapy
  • What you hope to achieve
  • Times available

I aim to respond to all enquiries as soon as I can, and I look forward to the opportunity to support you on your journey towards greater self-understanding and personal growth.


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